lilith in the houses show where we are rejected by others but also where we empower ourselves. note that lilith is not prominent in every chart.
lilith in the 1st: people reject the very essence of you, making you feel like an outsider. you may try to hide yourself, or even reject your identity. however, you feel most powerful when you embrace who you really are.
lilith in the 2nd: people reject your values and possessions, making you feel like you are worthless. you may try to buy items secretly to make yourself feel better or you try to adjust your values. however, you feel most powerful when you flaunt what you have proudly.
lilith in the 3rd: people reject your mind and thoughts, making you feel like your thoughts are wrong. you may try to hide your thoughts or radically change the way you think. you are at your most powerful when you reveal your real, genuine thoughts.
lilith in the 4th: the people in your family may reject you. you may try to search for other families, or you can try to reject them back. you are at your most powerful when you can finally establish and strongly the family roots you've made for yourself.
lilith in the 5th: you may find yourself rejected when you try to have fun. you may feel that your children reject you. you may try to make yourself like other hobbies or hide your creativity. you are at your most powerful when you can express your hidden creativity and inspiration freely.
lilith in the 6th: you may find yourself rejected by your coworkers or when you are required to do daily work. you may be very overcritical of yourself when you work because you don't feel competent. however, you are at your most powerful when you do your work the way you want to do it.
lilith in the 7th: you may find yourself feeling rejected by the people in your life or you're rejecting others. you may be very picky and shallow with your partners. you are at your most powerful when you can express your rebellious side intimately with others.
lilith in the 8th: you may find yourself rejecting the secrets you keep to yourself or rejected by others in intimacy. you may be manipulative and dangerously secretive. however, you are at your most powerful when you reveal your secrets without shame.
lilith in the 9th: you may find yourself rejected for what you believe in and for your culture. you may try to get rid of your cultural and worldly essence, but you are at your most powerful when you can show what you believe in.
lilith in the 10th: you may find yourself rejected by others before they meet you or you reject the world. you may try to hide from the world with resentment, but you are at your most powerful when you can stand out confidently.
lilith in the 11th: you may find yourself rejected by your friends and peers. you may feel lonely and detached, but you are at your most powerful when you become stronger through your solitude.
lilith in the 12th: you may find yourself rejecting your subconscious. you may feel there is a disconnect between your ego and subconscious due to this. you are at your most powerful when you accept your subconscious for what it is - even its dark side.