The sign ruling the 7th House and the planets in it show parts of our self-expression that we suppress to co-exist with others. The 7th House represents one-on-one interactions. In order for these one-on-one interactions to run smoothly, the egos of two people must be shared in harmony. With that in mind, parts of your ego will be hidden for the sake of compromise. Whatever is hidden will be shown in your 7th House. The lord of the 7th House will show why or how you suppress yourself.
For those with an interception in the 1st and 7th House, there is often a struggle to suppress your self-expressions, meaning that it can be difficult for you to blend in with others and co-exist. If there is a struggle to handling the self, there will definitely be a struggle in handling the other.
I suppress my [sign ruling the 7th] [planets in the 7th House] because [lord of the 7th House.]
SIGNS RULING THE 7TH:
Aries: aggressive and passionate
Taurus: stubborn and indulgent
Gemini: flighty and inconsistent
Cancer: emotional and sensitive
Leo: egotistical and creative
Virgo: analytical and observant
Libra: peaceful and charming
Scorpio: volatile and provoking
Sagittarius: carefree and reckless
Capricorn: strict and practical
Aquarius: quirky and harsh
Pisces: imaginative and confusing
PLANETS IN THE 7TH HOUSE:
Sun: sense of self, ego
Moon: emotions, need for comfort
Mercury: mind, voice, thoughts
Venus: ideals, need for validation
Mars: aggression, passion, action
Jupiter: talents
Saturn: expectations
Uranus: unpredictability
Neptune: confusion
Pluto: power
LORD OF THE 7TH HOUSE:
In the 1st House: I only want to express my true self.
In the 2nd House: my values and securities influence me.
In the 3rd House: my childhood influenced me/I think I should.
In the 4th House: my parents influenced me to/my past has influenced me to.
In the 5th House: I want to show the best of myself.
In the 6th House: I just want to get through the day.
In the 7th House: I want my one-on-one interactions to go smoothly.
In the 8th House: I don’t want people to know who I really am.
In the 9th House: my beliefs and views of the world influence me.
In the 10th House: I want to improve my reputation.
In the 11th House: only my friends deserve to see what I’m really like.
In the 12th House: I don’t really know who I am.
Example: Aquarius ruling the 7th House. Sun, Mars, and Jupiter in the 7th. Lord in the 8th House. I suppress my quirky and harsh ego, actions, and talents because I don’t want people to know who I really am.