Mars and Venus: How you Connect

Venus helps you connect by making sure your relationships are stable and peaceful though comfortable interactions while Mars helps you connect by making sure your relationships are true to yourself and authentic through uncomfortable interactions. We can look at the following areas in the chart to formulate how you personally connect to others:

  • Mars Sign and House Location: Shows how you connect to others by being true to yourself and by establishing authenticity

  • House Aries Rules: Shows where you want to assert yourself with the help of your relationships

  • House Scorpio Rules: Shows where you want to establish authenticity with the help of your relationships

  • Venus Sign and House Location: Shows how you connect to others by through peace and stability

  • House Taurus Rules: Shows where you want to secure yourself through the help of your relationships

  • House Libra Rules: Shows where you want to find peace through the help of your relationships

MARS SIGN

You work to make sure your relationships are authentic and true to yourself by paying attention to [Mars Sign]. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding [Mars House Location].

  • Mars in Aries: how you assert yourself in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight to be independent and you can also teach your partners how to be independent.

  • Mars in Taurus: the consistency of your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight for stability and you can also teach your partners how to maintain an inner stability.

  • Mars in Gemini: what you learn in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight for your knowledge and you can also teach your partners how to learn something new.

  • Mars in Cancer: how you feel in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight to express your feelings and you can teach your partners how to accept their feelings.

  • Mars in Leo: how your relationships sustain your identity. Through conflicts, you fight to maintain your identity and you can also teach your partners how to sustain their identities.

  • Mars in Virgo: how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through conflicts, you fight to establish order in your life and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos.

  • Mars in Libra: how fair and just the relationship is. Through conflicts, you fight to establish equality and balance and you can also teach your partners how to establish balance in their lives.

  • Mars in Scorpio: the intensity of the relationship. Through conflicts, you fight to establish distinct intimacy and acceptance and you can also teach your partners how to be accept themselves even at their worst.

  • Mars in Sagittarius: how open your relationship is. Through conflicts, you fight for your freedom and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown.

  • Mars in Capricorn: the quality and longevity of your relationship. Through conflicts, you fight for quality rather than quantity and you can also teach your partner that good things in life takes hard and dedicated work.

  • Mars in Aquarius: how autonomous you can be in your relationship through chaos. Through conflicts, you fight for autonomy and freedom and you can also teach your partner to accept and work well with the autonomy of freedom.

  • Mars in Pisces: how accepting and open you can be in your relationship. Through conflicts, you fight to facilitate acceptance and you can also teach your partner how to be open and compassionate.

MARS HOUSE LOCATION

  • 1st House: your identity

  • 2nd House: your security and self-esteem

  • 3rd House: your mind and thoughts

  • 4th House: your upbringing and past

  • 5th House: what brings you joy

  • 6th House: your daily routine and habits

  • 7th House: your one-on-one interactions

  • 8th House: the secrets you consciously hide

  • 9th House: your world view and beliefs

  • 10th House: your ambitions and career

  • 11th House: your community and friends

  • 12th House: your subconscious

HOUSE ARIES RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you strive to be true to yourself through your ___.

  • Aries ruling the 1st House: identity

  • Aries ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

  • Aries ruling the 3rd House: voice

  • Aries ruling the 4th House: roots

  • Aries ruling the 5th House: creativity

  • Aries ruling the 6th House: habits

  • Aries ruling the 7th House: interactions

  • Aries ruling the 8th House: secrets

  • Aries ruling the 9th House: world view

  • Aries ruling the 10th House: ambitions

  • Aries ruling the 11th House: friendships

  • Aries ruling the 12th House: subconscious

HOUSE SCORPIO RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you maintain authenticity through your ___.

  • Scorpio ruling the 1st House: identity

  • Scorpio ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

  • Scorpio ruling the 3rd House: voice

  • Scorpio ruling the 4th House: roots

  • Scorpio ruling the 5th House: creativity

  • Scorpio ruling the 6th House: habits

  • Scorpio ruling the 7th House: interactions

  • Scorpio ruling the 8th House: secrets

  • Scorpio ruling the 9th House: world view

  • Scorpio ruling the 10th House: ambitions

  • Scorpio ruling the 11th House: friendships

  • Scorpio ruling the 12th House: subconscious

VENUS SIGN

You work to make sure your relationships are peaceful and stable by paying attention to [Venus Sign]. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding [Venus House Location].

  • Venus in Aries: whether you can assert yourself. Through peace, you connect with your partners through independence and you can also teach your partners how to work to be independent.

  • Venus in Taurus: the consistency of your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through stability and you can also teach your partners how to maintain an inner stability.

  • Venus in Gemini: what you learn in your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through knowledge and learning and you can also teach your partners how to learn something new.

  • Venus in Cancer: how you feel in your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through emotional sharing and you can teach your partners how to accept their feelings.

  • Venus in Leo: how your relationships sustain your identity. Through peace, you connect with your partners through your identity and you can also teach your partners how to sustain their identities.

  • Venus in Virgo: how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through peace, you connect with your partners by maintaining order and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos.

  • Venus in Libra: how fair and just the relationship is. Through peace, you connect with your partner through implementing justice and you can also teach your partners how to establish balance in their lives.

  • Venus in Scorpio: the intensity of the relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through intense acceptance and you can also teach your partners how to be accept themselves even at their worst.

  • Venus in Sagittarius: how open your relationship is. Through peace, you connect to your partner through adventures and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown.

  • Venus in Capricorn: the quality and longevity of your relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through responsibility and you can also teach your partner that good things in life takes hard and dedicated work.

  • Venus in Aquarius: how autonomous you can be in your relationship through chaos. Through peace, you connect to your partner through having space and you can also teach your partner to accept and work well with the autonomy of freedom.

  • Venus in Pisces: how accepting and open you can be in your relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through creativity and intuition and you can also teach your partner how to be open and compassionate.

VENUS HOUSE LOCATION

  • 1st House: your identity

  • 2nd House: your security and self-esteem

  • 3rd House: your mind and thoughts

  • 4th House: your upbringing and past

  • 5th House: what brings you joy

  • 6th House: your daily routine and habits

  • 7th House: your one-on-one interactions

  • 8th House: the secrets you consciously hide

  • 9th House: your world view and beliefs

  • 10th House: your ambitions and career

  • 11th House: your community and friends

  • 12th House: your subconscious

HOUSE TAURUS RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you maintain inner stability through your ___.

  • Taurus ruling the 1st House: identity

  • Taurus ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

  • Taurus ruling the 3rd House: voice

  • Taurus ruling the 4th House: roots

  • Taurus ruling the 5th House: creativity

  • Taurus ruling the 6th House: habits

  • Taurus ruling the 7th House: interactions

  • Taurus ruling the 8th House: secrets

  • Taurus ruling the 9th House: world view

  • Taurus ruling the 10th House: ambitions

  • Taurus ruling the 11th House: friendships

  • Taurus ruling the 12th House: subconscious

HOUSE LIBRA RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you strive for peace through your ___.

  • Libra ruling the 1st House: identity

  • Libra ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

  • Libra ruling the 3rd House: voice

  • Libra ruling the 4th House: roots

  • Libra ruling the 5th House: creativity

  • Libra ruling the 6th House: habits

  • Libra ruling the 7th House: interactions

  • Libra ruling the 8th House: secrets

  • Libra ruling the 9th House: world view

  • Libra ruling the 10th House: ambitions

  • Libra ruling the 11th House: friendships

  • Libra ruling the 12th House: subconscious

Example: Mars in Virgo, Mars in 2nd House, Aries ruling 8th House, Scorpio ruling 3rd House, Venus in Sagittarius, Venus in 4th House, Taurus ruling 9th House, Libra ruling 2nd House

You work to make sure your relationships are authentic and true to yourself by paying attention to how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through conflicts, you fight to establish order in your life and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding your security and self-esteem. Through the help of your relationships, you strive to be true to yourself through your secrets. Through the help of your relationships, you maintain authenticity through your voice. You work to make sure your relationships are peaceful and stable by paying attention to how open your relationship is. Through peace, you connect to your partner through adventures and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding your upbringing and past. Through the help of your relationships, you maintain inner stability through your world view. Through the help of your relationships, you strive for peace through your security and self-esteem.