Mars and Venus: How you Connect

Venus helps you connect by making sure your relationships are stable and peaceful though comfortable interactions while Mars helps you connect by making sure your relationships are true to yourself and authentic through uncomfortable interactions. We can look at the following areas in the chart to formulate how you personally connect to others:

• Mars Sign and House Location: Shows how you connect to others by being true to yourself and by establishing authenticity

• House Aries Rules: Shows where you want to assert yourself with the help of your relationships

• House Scorpio Rules: Shows where you want to establish authenticity with the help of your relationships

• Venus Sign and House Location: Shows how you connect to others by through peace and stability

• House Taurus Rules: Shows where you want to secure yourself through the help of your relationships

• House Libra Rules: Shows where you want to find peace through the help of your relationships

MARS SIGN

You work to make sure your relationships are authentic and true to yourself by paying attention to [Mars Sign]. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding [Mars House Location].

• Mars in Aries: how you assert yourself in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight to be independent and you can also teach your partners how to be independent.

• Mars in Taurus: the consistency of your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight for stability and you can also teach your partners how to maintain an inner stability.

• Mars in Gemini: what you learn in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight for your knowledge and you can also teach your partners how to learn something new.

• Mars in Cancer: how you feel in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight to express your feelings and you can teach your partners how to accept their feelings.

• Mars in Leo: how your relationships sustain your identity. Through conflicts, you fight to maintain your identity and you can also teach your partners how to sustain their identities.

• Mars in Virgo: how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through conflicts, you fight to establish order in your life and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos.

• Mars in Libra: how fair and just the relationship is. Through conflicts, you fight to establish equality and balance and you can also teach your partners how to establish balance in their lives.

• Mars in Scorpio: the intensity of the relationship. Through conflicts, you fight to establish distinct intimacy and acceptance and you can also teach your partners how to be accept themselves even at their worst.

• Mars in Sagittarius: how open your relationship is. Through conflicts, you fight for your freedom and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown.

• Mars in Capricorn: the quality and longevity of your relationship. Through conflicts, you fight for quality rather than quantity and you can also teach your partner that good things in life takes hard and dedicated work.

• Mars in Aquarius: how autonomous you can be in your relationship through chaos. Through conflicts, you fight for autonomy and freedom and you can also teach your partner to accept and work well with the autonomy of freedom.

• Mars in Pisces: how accepting and open you can be in your relationship. Through conflicts, you fight to facilitate acceptance and you can also teach your partner how to be open and compassionate.

MARS HOUSE LOCATION

• 1st House: your identity

• 2nd House: your security and self-esteem

• 3rd House: your mind and thoughts

• 4th House: your upbringing and past

• 5th House: what brings you joy

• 6th House: your daily routine and habits

• 7th House: your one-on-one interactions

• 8th House: the secrets you consciously hide

• 9th House: your world view and beliefs

• 10th House: your ambitions and career

• 11th House: your community and friends

• 12th House: your subconscious

HOUSE ARIES RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you strive to be true to yourself through your ___.

• Aries ruling the 1st House: identity

• Aries ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Aries ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Aries ruling the 4th House: roots

• Aries ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Aries ruling the 6th House: habits

• Aries ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Aries ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Aries ruling the 9th House: world view

• Aries ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Aries ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Aries ruling the 12th House: subconscious

HOUSE SCORPIO RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you maintain authenticity through your ___.

• Scorpio ruling the 1st House: identity

• Scorpio ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Scorpio ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Scorpio ruling the 4th House: roots

• Scorpio ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Scorpio ruling the 6th House: habits

• Scorpio ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Scorpio ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Scorpio ruling the 9th House: world view

• Scorpio ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Scorpio ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Scorpio ruling the 12th House: subconscious

VENUS SIGN

You work to make sure your relationships are peaceful and stable by paying attention to [Venus Sign]. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding [Venus House Location].

• Venus in Aries: whether you can assert yourself. Through peace, you connect with your partners through independence and you can also teach your partners how to work to be independent.

• Venus in Taurus: the consistency of your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through stability and you can also teach your partners how to maintain an inner stability.

• Venus in Gemini: what you learn in your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through knowledge and learning and you can also teach your partners how to learn something new.

• Venus in Cancer: how you feel in your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through emotional sharing and you can teach your partners how to accept their feelings.

• Venus in Leo: how your relationships sustain your identity. Through peace, you connect with your partners through your identity and you can also teach your partners how to sustain their identities.

• Venus in Virgo: how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through peace, you connect with your partners by maintaining order and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos.

• Venus in Libra: how fair and just the relationship is. Through peace, you connect with your partner through implementing justice and you can also teach your partners how to establish balance in their lives.

• Venus in Scorpio: the intensity of the relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through intense acceptance and you can also teach your partners how to be accept themselves even at their worst.

• Venus in Sagittarius: how open your relationship is. Through peace, you connect to your partner through adventures and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown.

• Venus in Capricorn: the quality and longevity of your relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through responsibility and you can also teach your partner that good things in life takes hard and dedicated work.

• Venus in Aquarius: how autonomous you can be in your relationship through chaos. Through peace, you connect to your partner through having space and you can also teach your partner to accept and work well with the autonomy of freedom.

• Venus in Pisces: how accepting and open you can be in your relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through creativity and intuition and you can also teach your partner how to be open and compassionate.

VENUS HOUSE LOCATION

• 1st House: your identity

• 2nd House: your security and self-esteem

• 3rd House: your mind and thoughts

• 4th House: your upbringing and past

• 5th House: what brings you joy

• 6th House: your daily routine and habits

• 7th House: your one-on-one interactions

• 8th House: the secrets you consciously hide

• 9th House: your world view and beliefs

• 10th House: your ambitions and career

• 11th House: your community and friends

• 12th House: your subconscious

HOUSE TAURUS RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you maintain inner stability through your ___.

• Taurus ruling the 1st House: identity

• Taurus ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Taurus ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Taurus ruling the 4th House: roots

• Taurus ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Taurus ruling the 6th House: habits

• Taurus ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Taurus ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Taurus ruling the 9th House: world view

• Taurus ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Taurus ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Taurus ruling the 12th House: subconscious

HOUSE LIBRA RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you strive for peace through your ___.

• Libra ruling the 1st House: identity

• Libra ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Libra ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Libra ruling the 4th House: roots

• Libra ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Libra ruling the 6th House: habits

• Libra ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Libra ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Libra ruling the 9th House: world view

• Libra ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Libra ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Libra ruling the 12th House: subconscious

Example: Mars in Virgo, Mars in 2nd House, Aries ruling 8th House, Scorpio ruling 3rd House, Venus in Sagittarius, Venus in 4th House, Taurus ruling 9th House, Libra ruling 2nd House

You work to make sure your relationships are authentic and true to yourself by paying attention to how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through conflicts, you fight to establish order in your life and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding your security and self-esteem. Through the help of your relationships, you strive to be true to yourself through your secrets. Through the help of your relationships, you maintain authenticity through your voice. You work to make sure your relationships are peaceful and stable by paying attention to how open your relationship is. Through peace, you connect to your partner through adventures and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding your upbringing and past. Through the help of your relationships, you maintain inner stability through your world view. Through the help of your relationships, you strive for peace through your security and self-esteem.

Sustaining Relationships with Astrology

With natal astrology, you can find your attitude towards different kinds of relationships and what kind of needs you can provide and need from others. The following houses represent these kinds of relationships:

• 5th House: Fun, casual, romantic relationships

• 7th House: All one-on-one interactions

• 8th House: Intimate relationships

• 11th House: Friendships, group relationships

Using the concept of house derivations, you can find how you can sustain relationships by turning the natal chart to gain a different perspective.

For more information on house derivations, read this definition here. Now, house derivations work best when you have a set question you want to answer. The question asked is, “How can I stabilize and secure my relationships?” If you recall, the 2nd House is the house of security. The 2nd House secures the identity, which is the 1st House.

To stabilize your fun, casual, and romantic relationships (5th House) look to your 6th House. The 5th House is fun and inspirational, but how will you keep the inspiration flowing? Look to your habits, and pay attention to all of the little things you do. Look to your 6th House.

To stabilize your one-on-one interactions (7th House) look to your 8th House. The 7th House is the house of every one-on-one interaction you have had with another person. How do you take one conversation to the next level? By establishing an intimate relationship and sharing secrets. By being close and being honest with one another. Look to your 8th House.

To stabilize your intimate and close relationships (8th House) look to your 9th House. The 8th House is the relationship where you are completely honest. You are willing to reveal what you consciously hide, and to accept what your partner has hidden. However, what’s the purpose of this relationship? Is there a direction this meaningful relationship can take? If so, what is that direction? How will you and your partner face the world as a single unit? Look to your 9th House.

To stabilize your friendships and groups, look to your 12th House. The 11th House shows group dynamics. The 11th House is the part of the world you chose to belong. How can you keep a group of people together? Why is your friend group united? How can you sustain the feeling of belonging? How can you care for the every single being in the group you’re in? How can you disperse your identity healthily to care for the collective? Look to your 12th House.

With natal astrology, you can find your attitude towards different kinds of relationships and what kind of needs you can provide and need from others. The following houses represent these kinds of relationships:

• 5th House: Fun, casual, romantic relationships

• 7th House: All one-on-one interactions

• 8th House: Intimate relationships

• 11th House: Friendships, group relationships

This post will focus on how to sustain relationships found in the 5th House. If you have interceptions, your interpretation will be different.

Aries ruling the 5th House/Taurus ruling the 6th House: With Aries ruling your 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place where you can assert yourself. Due to this, you often like to take charge in your romantic relationships - making you relationships aggressive, but also passionate. To keep the fire going in your romantic relationships though, the fiery romance you ignite needs to be kept at a stable place. With Taurus ruling your 6th House, you can sustain the passionate nature of your romantic relationships by implementing a consistent and comfortable everyday routine. With a set everyday foundation, the passionate fire you assert into your romantic relationships will be kept alive. To keep passion thriving, consistency must be present.

Taurus ruling the 5th House/Gemini ruling the 6th House: With Taurus ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place of pleasure and stability. Due to this, you often like to indulge yourself and your partner in various pleasures - your romantic relationships will be a place for you to relax. To keep this stability and consistency though, your romantic relationships will have to be flexible and open to communication if it wants to sustain unforeseeable circumstances. With Gemini ruling your 6th House, you can keep your romantic relationships consistent by making your everyday life more open and flexible by communicating your needs. By creating more flexibility in your routine, you are creating more ways and opportunities for your relationships to be stronger, more stable, and more consistent.

Gemini ruling the 5th House/Cancer ruling the 6th House: With Gemini ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place to be curious and to question. Due to this, you often like to mentally stimulate yourself and your partner through learning new things and having numerous conversations. To keep your romantic relationships a place of curiosity though, your romantic relationships will have to feel comfortable and safe, for you can’t learn something new when you’re constantly looking out for danger. With Cancer ruling your 6th House, you can keep your romantic relationships fun by establishing a sense of home and safety through your everyday routine. By establishing a safe space, you are creating a space where you will be able to be curious with a minimal sense of danger.

Cancer ruling the 5th House/Leo ruling the 6th House: With Cancer ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be your sense of home. Due to this, you often like to make yourself and your partner comfortable by establishing the relationship as a safe space. To keep your romantic relationships a safe place though, your relationships has to highlight you and your partner’s individual and unique needs. With Leo ruling your 6th House, you can keep your relationships distinctly safe (like home) by paying attention to yourself and what you personally want through your daily routine. By highlighting on your unique needs, you will be able to create a relationship that feels like coming home after a long trip. Home is home because it puts a spotlight on the needs of the people living in it.

Leo ruling the 5th House/Virgo ruling the 6th House: With Leo ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place to showcase yourself and your partner. Due to this, you often like to do grand, dramatic, and generous gestures in your relationships, showing the best of what you can bring into a relationship to get and give validation. However, to keep your romantic relationships a grand place, your relationship has to be organized. All grand acts of love come with good planning. With Virgo ruling the 6th House, staying on top of your daily routines and habits will help you relax and have fun in your romantic relationships. If you can organize and manage the little things, you won’t have to worry about them while having fun with your relationships.

Virgo ruling the 5th House/Libra ruling the 6th House: With Virgo ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place of managing and helping your partner. Due to this, you often like to make sure your romantic relationships don’t fall out due to small mishaps. However, to make sure that your romantic relationships will keep on running, you have to consider contributions to the relationship from both you and your partner. With Libra ruling the 6th House, seeking to work together and to have a balanced everyday life will encourage you to constantly pay attention to the needs of your partner, eventually leading to paying attention to your romantic relationship. If you can consider your partner’s needs and thoughts, then you can always work and try to help them in your romantic relationships.

Libra ruling the 5th House/Scorpio ruling the 6th House: With Libra ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place of socializing and peace. Due to this, you often like to be considerate of your partner and you will always try to balance the idea of give and take. However, to make sure that your relationship stays in your idea of balanced, you have to understand the secret intensity that lies between you and your partner. With Scorpio ruling the 6th House, keeping your everyday life and habits a secret from the world and being dedicated to establishing a deeper connection in the daily life between each other will keep the peace you want in your romantic relationships. If you can handle chaos effectively in your everyday life, you can keep peace in your romantic relationships.

Scorpio ruling the 5th House/Sagittarius ruling the 6th House: With Scorpio ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place where you can be deep and establish an intimate connection to your partner. Due to this, you often like to be secretive and passionate in your romantic relationships. You want your relationships to be meaningful. However, to keep your romantic relationships intense, you have to able to have fun with one another. With Sagittarius ruling your 6th House, implementing fun, freedom, and novelty into your daily routine will give you a break from having your relationship be too intense. If you can have fun and and learn a thing or two from your partner, you can definitely stick closer together. You can’t be close to a person you don’t have fun with.

Sagittarius ruling the 5th House/Capricorn ruling the 6th House: With Sagittarius ruling the 5th House, you find your relationships to be a place of freedom and fun. You often seek for discovery in your romantic relationships. Due to this, you often like to initiate spontaneity, surprises, and fun in your relationships. However, to keep the fun going and to find something new, you need to establish the opposite: seriousness and what you know. With Capricorn ruling the 6th House, establishing a set and realistic routine will ground your adventurous romantic relationships. If you want to have an adventure, you have to have a point of departure. If you can be serious and responsible with your partner, then you can definitely have fun without bounds with minimal consequences.

Capricorn ruling the 5th House/Aquarius ruling the 6th House: With Capricorn ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place that is long-lasting, serious, realistic, and meaningful. Due to this, you often like to have a sense of realism and structure in your romantic relationships. However, to keep your relationship structured to guide you on the right path, your relationship must be able to go through unpredictability. With Aquarius ruling the 6th House, not conforming to the typical daily routine and trying interesting things will help test and improve the serious romantic relationships you want. If your romantic relationships can go through the weirdest surprises and get past the most unconventional routines, your relationship can stand against time.

Aquarius ruling the 5th House/Pisces ruling the 6th House: With Aquarius ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place where you can be unique, weird, and unconventional with your partner. Due to this, you often like to try interesting new things and to keep the relationship unpredictable. However, to keep your relationship full of surprises, your relationship must be able to embrace ambiguity and a lack of structure. With Pisces ruling the 6th House, being flexible and creative in your relationships will often bring the surprises you are looking for in your romantic relationships. If your romantic relationships can stand through confusion and a lack of structure, then your relationships can definitely take the exciting yet unexpected turn you’ve been looking for.

Pisces ruling the 5th House/Aries ruling the 6th House: With Pisces ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place where you can overly extend yourself by being creative and compassionate to your partner. Due to this, you often like to give a lot to the relationship and to delve deep into what your partner needs. However, if you want to make your relationship a place of constant giving and love, you have to make sure you know yourself well to know your limits. With Aries ruling your 6th House, fighting to assert what you want and being independent in your daily life will help you sustain a working identity in giving romantic relationships. If you can fight for yourself, then you can most definitely fight against circumstances to be deeply compassionate and loving.

Relationship Dynamics in Astrology

Astrology can show some insight on your relationship dynamics with others. The relationships described can either be platonic or romantic, since both types of relationships can run deeply between two people. Be sure to look at other elements of your chart, for this post illustrates the connections between the 7th House and 8th House. If you would like to check your relationships with lovers, check the 5th House. if you would like to check your relationship with friends, check the 11th House. You can gain a further understanding of your relationships with others when you are able to piece these areas together.

If you have two signs ruling the 7th and 8th House, you may find that you can’t disconnect your intimate needs from your one-on-one interactions. This may prove to be very difficult since it is hard to achieve intimacy with another person right away. With that in mind, there is a struggle in maintaining a functional relationship dynamic.

If you have your 7th House intercepted, you can struggle to start one-on-one interactions easily. What you ideally want in your one-on-one interactions can be unstable. If you have your 8th House intercepted, you can struggle to have intimate relationships with others.

7th House ruled by Aries//8th House ruled by Taurus: Your one-on-one interactions with others are generally very passionate and fun. There can be a lot of arguments and fun debates with who you talk to. There is a focus on keeping the relationship spicy, dynamic, and relevant to you. However, with your relationships, you intimately need stability and calmness if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People can leave you once you try to calm down the fiery dynamic of your relationship or can stay to stabilize your relationship with them. People may also try to leave you if you aren’t able to settle down the passion in your relationship and calm the the relationship dynamic down.

7th House ruled by Taurus//8th ruled by Gemini: Your one-on-one interactions with others are generally very slow-paced and steady. There are rarely arguments, and if there are any, they are eliminated immediately to keep things calm. There is a focus on comfort, and you like to keep your relationships in the comfort zone. However, with your relationships, you intimately need constant communication and change if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People can leave you once you try to get out of the comfort zone and communicate more or can stay in your relationship and keep a intelligent conversation. People may also try to leave you if you aren’t able to get out of your comfort zone and open your mind to different opinions.

7th House ruled by Gemini//8th ruled by Cancer: Your one-on-one interactions with others are generally very talkative, intelligent, and fun. There’s a lot of logical communication and learning, and you try your best to keep your emotions out of sight with others. There is a focus on talking and having fun. However, with your relationships, you intimately need a deep, nurturing emotional connections if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People can leave you once you try to move past the logic and delve into their emotions or stay to emotionally understand you. People may also try to leave you if you aren’t able to take their emotions into account and to see that logic doesn’t give you the whole picture.

7th House ruled by Cancer//8th ruled by Leo: Your one-on-one interactions with others are generally very nurturing, emotional, and soft. You are able to express yourself emotionally with others, and you like to focus and help others emotionally. There is a focus on feeling good and gentle with each other. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to feel that you are important and to be validated for your talents if you want your relationship to be significant to you. People can leave you once you try to make yourself feel recognized or stay to validate you for what you do. People may also try to leave you if you don’t directly work to get validation for your talents, because usually, you may try to get such validation passive-aggressively.

7th House ruled by Leo//8th ruled by Virgo: Your one-on-one interactions with others are often fun, creative, and spontaneous. You are able to have fun and be spontaneous with others, and you like to focus on creatively empowering yourself and the people you interact with. There is a focus on yourself. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to realize that instead of solely serving yourself, you need to serve others if you want any of your relationships to be significant. People can leave you once you try to get past your creative endeavors or stay to keep you aligned. People may also leave you if you refuse to acknowledge others and fail to realize that a relationship does not revolve around you.

7th House ruled by Virgo//8th ruled by Libra: Your one-on-one interactions with others are often meticulous, intelligent, and dynamic. You are able to have a nice, comfortable routine with others, and you like to plan and organize the dynamic of your relationships. There is a focus on being punctual and detailed in your one-on-one interactions. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to see the beautiful, rather than efficient way of life if you want your relationships to be significant to you. You may feel unloved or unattractive in your relationships. People may leave you once you try to loosen up and have fun or stay to let you indulge and please you. People may also leave if you refuse to relax and fail to slow down and see the beauty of the world.

7th House ruled by Libra//8th ruled by Scorpio: Your one-on-one interactions with others tend to be very social, charming, and equal. You are able to have a nice, balanced relationship with others, and you like to compromise and please others. There is a focus on keeping things peaceful. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to realize that peace doesn’t last forever and that conflict will inevitably occur if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People may leave you once you openly express your discontent or say to make your relationship stronger due to resolved conflict. People may also leave if you choose to stay passive-aggressive, actively trying to keep your relationship peaceful, but also shallow.

7th House ruled by Scorpio//8th ruled by Sagittarius: Your one-on-one interactions with others tend to be very intimate, deep, and secretive. You are able to have a deep, transformative relationship with others and you like to intimately know others. There is a focus of knowing everything about someone. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to keep your relationships fun, adventurous, and lightly mysterious to you if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People may leave you once you try to lighten up your relationship or stay to keep your relationship fun and light-hearted. People may also leave if you choose to keep your relationship heavy and dark with a pessimistic, suffocating dynamic.

7th House ruled by Sagittarius//8th House ruled by Capricorn: Your one-on-one interactions with others tend to be very fun, adventurous, and light-hearted. You are able to have a humorous, not-so-serious relationship with others and you like to escape responsibilities. There is a focus on not worrying and just having fun. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to implement responsibility and practicality if you want your relationships to be practical to you. People may leave you once you try to take the fun out of your relationships or stay to keep you responsible and grounded. People may also leave if you choose to run away from your problems and responsibilities, ultimately making you an individual that is irresponsible and potentially harmful to others.

7th House ruled by Capricorn//8th House ruled by Aquarius: Your one-on-one interactions with others tend to be very serious, practical and perhaps productive. You are able to have a functional relationships with others and you like to keep your relationships under control. There is a focus on keeping things in line. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to accept sudden changes and excitement if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People may leave you once you try to make your relationships more unpredictable or stay to keep the relationship dynamic exciting. People may also leave if you choose to restrict your relationships to be boring, static, and strongly restricted due to your fear of change.

7th House ruled by Aquarius//8th House ruled by Pisces: Your one-on-one interactions with others tend to be very quirky, weird, and exciting. You are able to have dynamic, unpredictable relationships with others and you like to keep your relationships different and interesting. There is a focus on variety, rationality, and logic. However, with your relationships, you intimately need to be irrationally compassionate with others if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People may leave once you try to become subconsciously and deeply close or stay to establish a truly compassionate relationship with you. People may also leave if you refuse to be to irrational to help others, for refusing can lead to an awkward detachment to others.

7th House ruled by Pisces//8th House ruled by Aries: Your one-on-one interactions with others tend to be very compassionate, creative, and dreamy. You are able to have kind, gently relationships with others and you like to keep your relationships relaxing. There is a focus on keeping things easygoing. However, with your relationships, you intimately need things to be straightforward, direct, and conflicting if you want your relationships to be significant to you. People may leave once you try to start needed arguments or stay to strengthen your relationships through helpful confrontations. People may also leave if you refuse to be clear, for being unclear can result in a lot of confusion and passive-aggression between each other.