Mars and Venus: How you Connect

Venus helps you connect by making sure your relationships are stable and peaceful though comfortable interactions while Mars helps you connect by making sure your relationships are true to yourself and authentic through uncomfortable interactions. We can look at the following areas in the chart to formulate how you personally connect to others:

• Mars Sign and House Location: Shows how you connect to others by being true to yourself and by establishing authenticity

• House Aries Rules: Shows where you want to assert yourself with the help of your relationships

• House Scorpio Rules: Shows where you want to establish authenticity with the help of your relationships

• Venus Sign and House Location: Shows how you connect to others by through peace and stability

• House Taurus Rules: Shows where you want to secure yourself through the help of your relationships

• House Libra Rules: Shows where you want to find peace through the help of your relationships

MARS SIGN

You work to make sure your relationships are authentic and true to yourself by paying attention to [Mars Sign]. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding [Mars House Location].

• Mars in Aries: how you assert yourself in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight to be independent and you can also teach your partners how to be independent.

• Mars in Taurus: the consistency of your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight for stability and you can also teach your partners how to maintain an inner stability.

• Mars in Gemini: what you learn in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight for your knowledge and you can also teach your partners how to learn something new.

• Mars in Cancer: how you feel in your relationships. Through conflicts, you fight to express your feelings and you can teach your partners how to accept their feelings.

• Mars in Leo: how your relationships sustain your identity. Through conflicts, you fight to maintain your identity and you can also teach your partners how to sustain their identities.

• Mars in Virgo: how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through conflicts, you fight to establish order in your life and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos.

• Mars in Libra: how fair and just the relationship is. Through conflicts, you fight to establish equality and balance and you can also teach your partners how to establish balance in their lives.

• Mars in Scorpio: the intensity of the relationship. Through conflicts, you fight to establish distinct intimacy and acceptance and you can also teach your partners how to be accept themselves even at their worst.

• Mars in Sagittarius: how open your relationship is. Through conflicts, you fight for your freedom and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown.

• Mars in Capricorn: the quality and longevity of your relationship. Through conflicts, you fight for quality rather than quantity and you can also teach your partner that good things in life takes hard and dedicated work.

• Mars in Aquarius: how autonomous you can be in your relationship through chaos. Through conflicts, you fight for autonomy and freedom and you can also teach your partner to accept and work well with the autonomy of freedom.

• Mars in Pisces: how accepting and open you can be in your relationship. Through conflicts, you fight to facilitate acceptance and you can also teach your partner how to be open and compassionate.

MARS HOUSE LOCATION

• 1st House: your identity

• 2nd House: your security and self-esteem

• 3rd House: your mind and thoughts

• 4th House: your upbringing and past

• 5th House: what brings you joy

• 6th House: your daily routine and habits

• 7th House: your one-on-one interactions

• 8th House: the secrets you consciously hide

• 9th House: your world view and beliefs

• 10th House: your ambitions and career

• 11th House: your community and friends

• 12th House: your subconscious

HOUSE ARIES RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you strive to be true to yourself through your ___.

• Aries ruling the 1st House: identity

• Aries ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Aries ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Aries ruling the 4th House: roots

• Aries ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Aries ruling the 6th House: habits

• Aries ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Aries ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Aries ruling the 9th House: world view

• Aries ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Aries ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Aries ruling the 12th House: subconscious

HOUSE SCORPIO RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you maintain authenticity through your ___.

• Scorpio ruling the 1st House: identity

• Scorpio ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Scorpio ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Scorpio ruling the 4th House: roots

• Scorpio ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Scorpio ruling the 6th House: habits

• Scorpio ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Scorpio ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Scorpio ruling the 9th House: world view

• Scorpio ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Scorpio ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Scorpio ruling the 12th House: subconscious

VENUS SIGN

You work to make sure your relationships are peaceful and stable by paying attention to [Venus Sign]. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding [Venus House Location].

• Venus in Aries: whether you can assert yourself. Through peace, you connect with your partners through independence and you can also teach your partners how to work to be independent.

• Venus in Taurus: the consistency of your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through stability and you can also teach your partners how to maintain an inner stability.

• Venus in Gemini: what you learn in your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through knowledge and learning and you can also teach your partners how to learn something new.

• Venus in Cancer: how you feel in your relationships. Through peace, you connect with your partners through emotional sharing and you can teach your partners how to accept their feelings.

• Venus in Leo: how your relationships sustain your identity. Through peace, you connect with your partners through your identity and you can also teach your partners how to sustain their identities.

• Venus in Virgo: how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through peace, you connect with your partners by maintaining order and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos.

• Venus in Libra: how fair and just the relationship is. Through peace, you connect with your partner through implementing justice and you can also teach your partners how to establish balance in their lives.

• Venus in Scorpio: the intensity of the relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through intense acceptance and you can also teach your partners how to be accept themselves even at their worst.

• Venus in Sagittarius: how open your relationship is. Through peace, you connect to your partner through adventures and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown.

• Venus in Capricorn: the quality and longevity of your relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through responsibility and you can also teach your partner that good things in life takes hard and dedicated work.

• Venus in Aquarius: how autonomous you can be in your relationship through chaos. Through peace, you connect to your partner through having space and you can also teach your partner to accept and work well with the autonomy of freedom.

• Venus in Pisces: how accepting and open you can be in your relationship. Through peace, you connect to your partner through creativity and intuition and you can also teach your partner how to be open and compassionate.

VENUS HOUSE LOCATION

• 1st House: your identity

• 2nd House: your security and self-esteem

• 3rd House: your mind and thoughts

• 4th House: your upbringing and past

• 5th House: what brings you joy

• 6th House: your daily routine and habits

• 7th House: your one-on-one interactions

• 8th House: the secrets you consciously hide

• 9th House: your world view and beliefs

• 10th House: your ambitions and career

• 11th House: your community and friends

• 12th House: your subconscious

HOUSE TAURUS RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you maintain inner stability through your ___.

• Taurus ruling the 1st House: identity

• Taurus ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Taurus ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Taurus ruling the 4th House: roots

• Taurus ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Taurus ruling the 6th House: habits

• Taurus ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Taurus ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Taurus ruling the 9th House: world view

• Taurus ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Taurus ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Taurus ruling the 12th House: subconscious

HOUSE LIBRA RULES

Through the help of your relationships, you strive for peace through your ___.

• Libra ruling the 1st House: identity

• Libra ruling the 2nd House: security and self-esteem

• Libra ruling the 3rd House: voice

• Libra ruling the 4th House: roots

• Libra ruling the 5th House: creativity

• Libra ruling the 6th House: habits

• Libra ruling the 7th House: interactions

• Libra ruling the 8th House: secrets

• Libra ruling the 9th House: world view

• Libra ruling the 10th House: ambitions

• Libra ruling the 11th House: friendships

• Libra ruling the 12th House: subconscious

Example: Mars in Virgo, Mars in 2nd House, Aries ruling 8th House, Scorpio ruling 3rd House, Venus in Sagittarius, Venus in 4th House, Taurus ruling 9th House, Libra ruling 2nd House

You work to make sure your relationships are authentic and true to yourself by paying attention to how your relationship can withstand unforeseeable circumstances. Through conflicts, you fight to establish order in your life and you can also teach your partners how to establish order in chaos. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding your security and self-esteem. Through the help of your relationships, you strive to be true to yourself through your secrets. Through the help of your relationships, you maintain authenticity through your voice. You work to make sure your relationships are peaceful and stable by paying attention to how open your relationship is. Through peace, you connect to your partner through adventures and you can also teach your partners how to be open-minded and explore the unknown. These connections primarily happen in matters regarding your upbringing and past. Through the help of your relationships, you maintain inner stability through your world view. Through the help of your relationships, you strive for peace through your security and self-esteem.

Your Power

In the natal chart, your idea of power and authority is found in Pluto and Saturn. Pluto often showcases the secret power and potential you possess. Saturn is the planet that gives that power an applicable and effective goal that leads to authority, a controlled way of using that power. Mars in the natal chart shows how you can access your potential power.

YOUR SECRET POWER

• Pluto in the 1st: Your secret power is found through your self-expression. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who act similarly to you.

• Pluto in the 2nd: Your secret power is found through your security. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by those who are highly valued and secure in themselves.

• Pluto in the 3rd: Your secret power is found through your thoughts. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by intelligent and smart people who are confident in their words.

• Pluto in the 4th: Your secret power is found through your past. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by the people in your past or a parent strongly affected your upbringing.

• Pluto in the 5th: Your secret power is found through your creativity. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who are talented who aren’t afraid to express themselves.

• Pluto in the 6th: Your secret power is found through your control of your conscious circumstances. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who enhance their daily lives through productivity and mindful living.

• Pluto in the 7th: Your secret power is found through your one-on-one interactions. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who have a special awareness and ease with individual social interactions.

• Pluto in the 8th: Your secret power is found through the self you choose to hide. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who wholly accept their positive and negative traits.

• Pluto in the 9th: Your secret power is found through your evaluation of the world. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who are open-minded and cultured in the workings of the world.

• Pluto in the 10th: Your secret power is found through your reputation and ambitions. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who have a strong reputation and have achieved their goals.

• Pluto in the 11th: Your secret power is found through your group interactions. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who have a special awareness and ease with group social interactions.

• Pluto in the 12th: Your secret power is found in your subconscious. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people in touch with their inner self who use their secret characteristics to show compassion and help others.

APPLYING YOUR POWER

• Saturn in the 1st: You ideally want to apply your power to yourself so that you can gain control and authority over your self-expression.

• Saturn in the 2nd: You ideally want to apply your power to your security so that you can gain control and authority over your worth.

• Saturn in the 3rd: You ideally want to apply your power to your mind so that you can gain control and authority over your words.

• Saturn in the 4th: You ideally want to apply your power to your past and upbringing so that you can gain control and authority over your roots.

• Saturn in the 5th: You ideally want to apply your power to your creativity so that you can gain control and authority over your talent.

• Saturn in the 6th: You ideally want to apply your power to your circumstances so that you can gain control and authority over your everyday life.

• Saturn in the 7th: You ideally want to apply your power to your one-on-one interactions so that you can gain control and authority over your relationships.

• Saturn in the 8th: You ideally want to apply your power to your secret self so that you can gain control and authority over your privacy.

• Saturn in the 9th: You ideally want to apply your power to your world view so that you can gain control and authority over your beliefs.

• Saturn in the 10th: You ideally want to apply your power to your goals so that you can gain control and authority over your ambitions.

• Saturn in the 11th: You ideally want to apply your power to your community so that you can gain control and authority over your group presence.

• Saturn in the 12th: You ideally want to apply your power to your subconscious so that you can gain control and authority over what you’re not aware of.

FINDING YOUR POWER

• Mars in the 1st: You can access your power by finding a way to express yourself.

• Mars in the 2nd: You can access your power by finding a way to be secure with yourself.

• Mars in the 3rd: You can access your power by finding a way to talk and communicate.

• Mars in the 4th: You can access your power by finding a way to establish your foundation.

• Mars in the 5th: You can access your power by finding a way to express your creativity and fun.

• Mars in the 6th: You can access your power by finding a way to control your everyday life.

• Mars in the 7th: You can access your power by finding a way to keep valuable one-on-one relationships.

• Mars in the 8th: You can access your power by finding a way to access your secret self.

• Mars in the 9th: You can access your power by finding a way to learn about the world.

• Mars in the 10th: You can access your power by finding a way to establish your goals.

• Mars in the 11th: You can access your power by finding a way to create a presence in the community.

• Mars in the 12th: You can access your power by finding a way to understand your subconscious.

Example: Pluto in the 5th, Saturn in the 3rd, Mars in the 2nd. Your secret power is found through your creativity. You tend to fear, yet be fascinated by people who are talented who aren’t afraid to express themselves. You ideally want to apply your power to your mind so that you can gain control and authority over your words. You can access your power by finding a way to be secure with yourself.

The Offensive and the Defensive

This post is inspired by the following quote from Linda Goodman from “Love Signs”

“Aries often dissipates the Mars energy in the premature exposure of emotional reaction, fighting on the defensive. A Ram never attacks unless struck first. Remember that Aries is the symbolic Infant of the zodiac, and infants don’t yell unless they’re ignored, or someone jabs them with a sharp safety pin. After all, it’s the only defense they have against pain or neglect. When more serious danger threatens, their guardian, Mars, comes to the rescue. Scorpios, however, are masters of the offensive - an offensive laced with clever, cool strategy, exquisite patience and an uncanny sense of the weakness of others. You won’t find Scorpios coming unstrung, running hither and thither, or striking wildly. When they strike, it’s straight on target, with deadly precision.”

Where Aries and Scorpio rules in your natal chart shows where we are defensive and offensive. Aries shows where you are defensive, for Aries rules the defensive part of combat with Mars. Scorpio shows where you are offensive, for Scorpio rules the offensive part of combat with Mars. In a sense, Aries can often show where you feel vulnerable while Scorpio can show where you feel powerful potential.

Looking where Mars and Pluto are in your chart can often explain why we protect ourselves, whether it be through offense or defense.

If you have an Aries/Libra or Taurus/Scorpio interception, you may feel as if you have a weakness. With an Aries/Libra interception, you may feel defenseless and vulnerable with no walls while with a Taurus/Scorpio interception, you would feel powerless and weak with no weapons. To find your source of protection and power, you would have to look at your Mars and Pluto, depending on which sign is intercepted. With duplications, you may feel as if you have too much protection. With an Aries duplication, you can feel highly defensive with many walls to protect you while with a Scorpio duplication, you can feel highly offensive with too many weapons at your disposal.

ARIES RULING THE HOUSES + MARS IN THE HOUSES

You get defensive when you feel that people are threatening your ___. You feel that you will ___ if you don’t defend yourself.

• Aries ruling the 1st: self-expression / not be able to express yourself the way you want to

• Aries ruling the 2nd: values and confidence / not be able to feel secure

• Aries ruling the 3rd: words and intelligence / be seen to be intellectually inferior

• Aries ruling the 4th: family and roots / not be able to feel comfortable with your beginnings

• Aries ruling the 5th: your fun and passions / not be able to easily access your inspirations

• Aries ruling the 6th: daily life / not be able to get through your day

• Aries ruling the 7th: one-on-one interactions / not be able to establish good relationships with others

• Aries ruling the 8th: secret self and tendencies / not be able to truly gain intimate acceptance from others

• Aries ruling the 9th: beliefs and views / not have a strong sense of direction and purpose in life

• Aries ruling the 10th: ambitions and goals / lose your power and mark on the world

• Aries ruling the 11th: friends and community / will not belong anywhere

• Aries ruling the 12th: inner self / not be able to forgive and accept yourself

You get defensive because you feel that your ___ is/are fragile and/or not creditable.

• Mars in the 1st: self-expression

• Mars in the 2nd: confidence

• Mars in the 3rd: mind

• Mars in the 4th: comfort

• Mars in the 5th: inspiration

• Mars in the 6th: routine

• Mars in the 7th: relationships

• Mars in the 8th: dark side

• Mars in the 9th: beliefs

• Mars in the 10th: goals

• Mars in the 11th: community

• Mars in the12th: subconscious

SCORPIO RULING THE HOUSES + PLUTO IN THE HOUSES

You get offensive when you feel that people are threatening your ___. You feel that you have the potential to powerfully ___ over any threat.

• Scorpio ruling the 1st: self-expression / express yourself

• Scorpio ruling the 2nd: values and confidence / assert your security and self-esteem

• Scorpio ruling the 3rd: words and intelligence / communicate

• Scorpio ruling the 4th: family and roots / have peace

• Scorpio ruling the 5th: your fun and passions / utilize your inspirations

• Scorpio ruling the 6th: daily life / organize and analyze your life

• Scorpio ruling the 7th: one-on-one interactions / work with others

• Scorpio ruling the 8th: secret self and tendencies / empower yourself

• Scorpio ruling the 9th: beliefs and views / expand your mind

• Scorpio ruling the 10th: ambitions and goals / establish yourself

• Scorpio ruling the 11th: friends and community / transform your sense of belonging

• Scorpio ruling the 12th: inner self / utilize your subconscious tendencies

You get offensive because you feel that your ___ is a potentially strong part of you.

• Pluto in the 1st: self-expression

• Pluto in the 2nd: confidence

• Pluto in the 3rd: mind

• Pluto in the 4th: comfort

• Pluto in the 5th: inspiration

• Pluto in the 6th: routine

• Pluto in the 7th: relationships

• Pluto in the 8th: dark side

• Pluto in the 9th: beliefs

• Pluto in the 10th: goals

• Pluto in the 11th: community

• Pluto in the 12th: subconscious

Mars in the 12th House

The 12th House can often simultaneously represent freedom and imprisonment at the same time. Our dreams and subconscious, free, but also contained spaces are represented in the 12th House. Prisons and hospitals are often represented in the 12th House because prisoners and patients are restricted to stay in the building, but they are free from the brutality of the societal norms outside.

When Mars is in the 12th House, the energy in this planet is simultaneously trapped, but also free in the subconscious. Passion and energy bubbles inside the native, the passion truly becoming something unique and distinctive with all the free, imaginative space of the subconscious. However, when the walls of the subconscious crumble due to the lack of control on the surface conscious, that passion will go through the cracks and escape the subconscious for a short time until it is captured again.

Passion and anger is a neutral concept and the neutrality of it will change depending on how the native decides to use that passion. Anger, like the subconscious, can slip out of the native when they are not aware. In a sense, this can make anger hard to control, and sometimes, natives can even struggle to know the details of the existence of their anger. The anger that can come out of an individual with Mars in the 12th can feel foreign. A native may ask, “Where did this anger come from?” “How did I get angry?” “Why am I angry?” while trying to figure out their anger, only to find out that nothing, yet everything, angers them. Often, they can either express their anger passive aggressively, or impulsively. Or both. With passion, they can find themselves molding their energy into almost every hobby, but that hobby doesn’t have strong staying power. With that being said, it can be difficult for a native in the 12th House to find a hobby that truly captivates them.

With energy ruled by Mars, it can be hard for the native to work consistently and routinely. With energy located in the subconscious, the native is most active when the subconscious is most active… With that in mind, it would not be surprising with someone with Mars in the 12th was always tired during the day when the conscious, not the subconscious is active. Those with Mars in the 12th can get tired very easily, for energy for them doesn’t come very clearly and easily. Natives often need to spent time by themselves to recharge so that they’re not overwhelmed by the world around them. Often, before the native starts a task, it can be hard for the native to really start, for they already feel like they’re asserting so much even though nothing has been tangibly. However, when it comes to dreams, those with Mars in the 12th are very active. It’s common for Mars in the 12th to have very engaging, passionate dreams. It’s not surprising for those with Mars in the 12th House to also have sexual dreams.

Those with Mars in the 12th House often unintentionally hide their sexual tendencies. Hiding sexual tendencies can often lead to various results. It is possible for people to not “see” the sexual tendencies of these natives, and due to that, Mars in the 12th natives can be seen to be innocent, when it may not be the case at all. Hidden sexual tendencies are also repressed tendencies. With that in mind, some natives can struggle to control their sexual urges, their sexual nature subconsciously revealed through their body language, tone of their words, and other escape routes the subconscious may take. In that regard, individuals with Mars in the 12th House can also be very sexual. When Mars in the 12th natives feel free, that’s when they do their best in the bedroom. However, on the other end, natives could also lack sexual tendencies, and maybe even have an aversion to sexual matters altogether.

The main theme with Mars in the 12th House is to realize that while it may be hard to grasp certain things that can definitely help on a daily basis, the purpose of Mars in the 12th House is not for daily things. While it is difficult for Mars in the 12th House to be consistently active, passionate, and assertive, it should be noted that when the Mars in the 12th native is any of those three things, if mastered, it is seen beautifully. The passion and energy that is manifested in the 12th House are not simple, for they are not made for simple matters. Mars in the 12th natives are able to absorb anger, passion, and energies with others and have the strong potential to heal other through their actions. While the energy of Mars in the 12th is hard to manage, the energy present in the 12th House is also very flexible and helpful to others. Mars in the 12th is a test of using one’s energy - if the native can successfully pass through the tests in the 12th House, the native can most certainly help others.

Sex with the Signs

So I got a lot of asks about my favorite subject so I thought, why not make a post about it? And if you’re not sexual, ignore this. But if you are, READ! Also, when reading, check your Sun AND your Mars. I personally believe your Sun and Mars are the two planets that give the most insight about what you’d be like in the bedroom!

ARIES: The Spark. Aries aren’t sentimental and sensual. They won’t take it slow. Quite the opposite actually! They honestly just want to rip your clothes off and get to it. Aries have a very high sex drive. They’re extremely passionate and confident and they’ll leave you breathless. They like to dominate their partner, but they also get extremely turned on if they’re forced into a submissive position. Aries also like to have sex in places where they could be caught to ramp up the excitement.

TAURUS: The Sensual. Tauruses will take their time when it comes to being with someone in bed. They’re the type to slowly unbutton your shirt, and to give you a lot of eye contact before doing the deed. There will be candles lit and lots of rose petals on the bed. Tauruses are extremely sensual and romantic, relishing every second they have with you. They also have a strong endurance, so they could keep going longer than others! Tauruses are also quite possessive of their partners, so once they have you, you’re stuck. After all, they also worked slowly and patiently to pursue you!

GEMINI: The Dynamic. Geminis love to have a variety and a lot of communication, and they like to take this into the bedroom! Geminis love dirty talk. They’ll most likely whisper sexy things into your ear, and maybe stimulate your mind more than your body. Geminis are unpredictable, and you’ll never really know what they’ll do to you. There’s a lot of energy when you’re with a Gemini. They’ll probably want to do a lot of different things when they’re with a partner to keep things interesting. They can get easily bored, so if they don’t care about your feelings, they could jump to another partner.

CANCER: The Nurturer. Cancers are extremely emotional and when they’re in the bedroom, they’ll want to stimulate your emotions and connect to you on an emotional level. When you’re having sex with a Cancer, your needs will come before theirs. They will try to please you the best way they can However, if you want to please a Cancer, nurture their feelings since they are quite sensitive. They like their sex to be gentle and sweet, and they don’t mind being submissive. However, they don’t like rough sex. Keep it romantic.

LEO: The Entertainer. For Leos, sex is a stage. It’s a chance for them to show their skills, and they want to be praised for it. How sex with a Leo goes depends on how much you compliment them while they’re doing it with you. The more you tell or show them how good they are, the better they’ll do. They’ll be more eager to please you! They do aim to please you, but they can be selfish in bed. However, having sex with a Leo is intense. They have high sex drives and they expect loyalty in the bedroom.

VIRGO: The Servant. Virgos will aim to please you every time. They’re extremely selfless in bed, and they will not leave the bed until they know what exactly turns you on. If you’re wondering how to turn on a Virgo… let them know that they’re turning you on! In fact, they’ll memorize it and aim for perfection the next time around. Virgos are extremely sensual and kinky, but only if they feel physically comfortable. They won’t have a good time if they find anything out of place, or anything dirty. Because they like to serve, they also wouldn’t mind being submissive.

LIBRA: The Romantic. Libras are more romantic than sexual, if anything. Libras are more concerned with pleasing you, and they’d like their sex to be peaceful, calm, and romantic. They don’t like rough sex, and they may be too focused on pleasing you instead of thinking about themselves. Because they want to please you so much, it’d be very hard to please them. They can be quite detached in the bedroom. They want their sex to be relaxing since they’re always stressed out with keeping things peaceful.

SCORPIO: The Intimate. Scorpios want to completely dominate and engulf you when they have sex with you. Scorpios are known to be good at sex, and it’s true! Sex comes naturally to them like a first language and they know exactly what turns people on. They are however quite loyal and possessive, so they usually don’t like the idea of nightstands. They may not have sex often, but when they do, they make it count. They truly see sex as a way to get truly intimate with someone, and they mainly aim for intimacy.

SAGITTARIUS: The Adventurer. Having sex with a Sagittarius is like going on a road trip: an adventure. Sagittariuses love to explore in the bedroom and they’re quite open-minded to where they can be quite wild! Although passionate, they also like intellectual stimulation. A Sagittarius would love an intimate, intellectual conversation while cuddling after. Although they’re faithful, they can be easily bored. They like to change things up, and they don’t like routines.

CAPRICORN: The Crazy One. Capricorns have a calm exterior to them that would make you think they’re practical and mature. It’s true, they are mature, but what you don’t know is that they’re secretly crazy and probably really kinky because they hide this side of themselves. Capricorns are extremely lustful and if they’re aroused, they’ll definitely go for you since they have little self-control once they’re provoked. They’re a freak in the sheets, and they’ll usually try anything if it’s weird.

AQUARIUS: The Innovative. Aquariuses are inventive when it comes to sex. They like to think about the million possibilities they can do in the bedroom, and they would like a partner who would do the same, but have them think that they’re superior. They definitely don’t go the traditional route when it comes to sex, and they may like open relationships and multiple partners. They don’t like to tie emotions into their sex life. Sex is very, very interesting with an Aquarius.

PISCES: The Martyr. Pisces are extremely romantic and sensual when it comes to sex. They tend to daydream about sex, and having sex with them could be a dreamy, otherworldly experience. A Pisces will most definitely stir your innermost emotions while making love to you. They are willing to be submissive in bed because they’re used to sacrificing for others. They will literally do anything for you in the bedroom.